So, today I'm going to tell you 3 powerful things no one will ever tell you about fake people. As, I've met with many in my life, so I thought why not pen down my thoughts up on it.
1. THEY LACK CONFIDENCE.
Well, first tell me who are these haux? Of course, they are someone who portray themselves in a wrong way. They pretend what they aren't in actual life. They will fake their persona entirely, which is just so wrong. All my life I've been thinking that why can't people be just "themselves" and not what they aren't or try to be? Like, what's so good in this? This is beyond my understanding to be honest. Okay, coming back to the topic, so yes they lack self confidence. They have a weak and very low self esteem. Obviously, how can you be full of confidence when you aren't YOU Make sense, right?
2. THEY ARE JEALOUS.
Damn, this is something I can highly relate to. Like, I've dealt with so many people who are jealous of literally small small things. And if ever you've noticed a jealous person, you will come to know that jealousy literally can be seen on their face. ( That's funny to watch, at least for me! :P ) Henceforth, what does this shows? According to me, these things are interconnected, if you have that jealousy trait in you, you're more likely to have low confidence. Think about it. Never be jealous of anyone. God has created every human differently ( check out my previous blog ) , no one is same and no one can be. Just love yourself as who you are, never be jealous, it will literally ruin everything in your life, trust me on that.
3. THEY ARE FULL OF INSECURITIES.
Have you seen people bragging? No? Make sure to notice it next time while having a convo. Be observant, notice things around you, notice people. By observing people you will come to know automatically about their insecurity without them uttering a single word. Fake people are full of insecurities. They aren't happy souls. They always look forward to pull you down because they lack everything. They are not relaxed. Their mind is constantly at work in thinking weird stuffs. STAY AWAY FROM THESE TYPES OF HUMANS. THEY ARE HAZARDOUS.
Never be with a group who aren't real. They won't make you any profit but will just snatch the remaining happiness from your well going life. Beware!
DISCLAIMER - I'M NOT SAYING THEY ARE BAD. I GUESS, FAKE PEOPLE NEED A BIT OF LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING. THEY AREN'T BAD. NO HUMAN IS BAD. THEY ARE JUST SURROUNDED BY NEGATIVITY WHICH IS EVENTUALLY MAKING THEM DO THESE THINGS. THEY NEED SOMEONE WHO CAN SHOW THEM THE REAL "THEY", YOU GETTING IT? NEVER PLAY THAT TIT FOR TAT GAME WITH ANYONE IT WON'T HELP EVER, JUST TRY TO BE PATIENT AND GOOD THINGS WILL COME ALONG! NO MATTER HOW PEOPLE BEHAVE WITH YOU, WHETHER THEY ARE BEING FAKE OR ABUSIVE, NEVER BECOME LIKE THEM. AND ALSO TRY TO UNDERSTAND THEM TOO. THINK WHAT PROBABLY COULD BE THE REASON BEHIND THEIR TRAIT OF BEING FAKE. TRY TO BE AS SUPPORTIVE AND HELPFUL AS YOU CAN, IT WILL REFLECT YOUR PERSONALITY NOT THEIRS.
Hope you have understood these things in a better way now. That's what I've observed til far in my life. What more things we can add to the list, comment down and let me know.
Stay connected, keep sharing, and be a bit mature and understandable towards other people too. It will help you grow more successfully.
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