Who you really are?

How many of you are actually interested in knowing yourselves better? Who doesn't want to know themselves, right? But one thing, some are just too afraid to know or accept certain stuffs about them. The biggest problem today, which most of the people proudly do is, not accepting themselves wholly. I mean, why? It's YOU! How can you take yourself so lightly? Why can't people take THEMSELVES seriously? Aren't you blessed to have such an alluring life in front of you.

In this blog, I'm going to make you realize who you actually are, which I guess, is too necessary to make people realize their worth. Have you ever thought about knowing yourself deeply? Not even half of them will understand what I'm talking about. This session would be a little bit deep, cause you're going to know the truth about life and you, of course.

1. TALK TO YOURSELF.

Here, I'm not talking about your name or physical appearance or any race or religion. I'm talking about "you" as a whole, as an individual. Doesn't matter what your name is, caste is, how you look, what skin color you have. The thing which matter is you, your heart. How often do you think about YOURSELF? How many of you really talk to yourself meanwhile you're alone? Very few? See, you have your whole life to talk to other people, just take out a lil time and talk to yourself. Know yourself better, talk to yourself as you're talking to your best friend. ( Okay, don't be abusive! ) 

2. YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON.

Just tell yourself once in a day that "I'm a special person". And hey, doesn't matter if no one consider you one, you are and will always be special to your own self. Always remember this. It doesn't matter how many people hate you and love you, never stop loving yourself. I know sometimes there are situation which makes you hate yourself and I totally understand that, it happens with me too. And you know why we feel this way? Because we do certain things which we never expect from ourselves, so yes it hurts. No one could ever try to treat you bad until and unless you won't treat yourself right. If you don't respect yourself, why would anyone will? Stop bitching about yourself, there are lots of people who already do this work, don't add up yourself in that list.

3. ASK QUESTIONS TO YOURSELF.

Do you ever try to ask questions to yourself? Trust me in this, this is the best way to know yourself. Ask yourself questions just the way any second person would ask. Answer yourself genuinely. Never ever lie to yourself, cause you ought to know yourself better. Ask questions like, what dreams you have, what matters to you the most, what are your strengths and weaknesses. You know the bitter truth? Nowadays, people are just so much keen to know about other humans that they actually end up forgetting themselves that who "they are". They don't know themselves as much as they known their friends. And this is just not right. Learn to understand yourself first, learn to know yourself first.

If you don't know anything about yourself, if you don't understand yourself, how can you expect from someone to understand you as well? Or how can you expect from yourself to understand that so and so person? No these two things can't be together.

I really hope I somehow made you realize how you can actually know yourself. You don't need anybody's help, you're all good to do this alone by yourself. Don't be dependent. Try to solve your own issues first.

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