3 pillars of a secure Relationship.

How many of you think that your relationship is strong enough to face any kind of traumatic situations? And mind you, here I'm talking about every sort of relationship you have with each other. Doesn't matter a parent child relationship, a friendship bond, or lovers.

Today, let's talk about the 3 pillars which will make your relationship with other people secure and beautiful enough for the upcoming future.

1. TRUST.

How many of you blindly trust your opposite person? Like, you don't doubt, you don't investigate ( which like every human do while having a doubt ), are you becoming a detective? This is not healthy. Trust is such a crucial thing in a relationship. If you don't trust your opposite being, then I don't think you'll have a great relationship ahead. You ought to find a human who trust you without any doubts. Okay a quick disclaimer - Until and unless you don't do anything wrong, your partner would trust you deeply. But, also remember to not to break anyone's trust. This is really really heartbreaking when a person trust you with all his/her heart and you end up breaking it, nothing could be more worse than this. 

~ ALWAYS TRUST EACH OTHER NO MATTER HOW WORSE THE SITUATION GETS. NEVER GET MANIPULATED BY OTHERS.

2. RESPECT.

For me, respecting each other's dignity comes first, doesn't matter what age that so and so person is. Respect in a relationship is the first step towards a healthy bond. I see people abusing each other, and not behaving well. This is not a good sign. So here I'm not only talking about lovers, but also about every relationship you have with other people. Disrespecting someone as an individual is not cool, it has become a trend nowadays. Like, Seriously? ( for instance, friends ) A respectful behavior polish your personality and attitude, moreover, people get attracted towards people who respect others. And of course, who doesn't want to be treated respectfully?

~ ALWAYS RESPECT EACH OTHER, NOT BECAUSE THEY'RE YOUR PARTNER OR PARENT OR FAMILY, THEY ARE HUMANS AND EVERY HUMAN IN THIS WORLD DESERVES A HANDFUL OF RESPECT.

3. COMFORTABLENESS.

For me, this is most important thing in a relationship. Without this, your relationship won't be able to make it. How many of you are highly comfortable in sharing different things with your opposite being. It's difficult? Do you find it hard sometimes? Do you get a bit anxious about how to share or tell this? Dude, grow up! Start building that comfortable bond between you both. Start working upon it. I've seen kids who don't share anything with their parents. Like why? Why can't you be comfortable in sharing everything with them? Talk about things, discuss it. Have a good time thinking about what could be the solution. Why do you hide? Same goes with lovers. Why do you keep things with yourself? Just make that comfortable bond, and that way you're going to make yourself more open and you know the bonus?  > If you are comfortable, you can open up to people more easily > if you're doing it then people will understand you more clearly > if they understand you, they will take care of things more that's related to you > they start caring more n more and eventually Love will get increased in your bond. 

~ ALWAYS MAKE SURE TO BECOME AS COMFORTABLE AS YOU CAN IN ANY SORT OF RELATION. IT'S REALLY REALLY ESSENTIAL IF YOU WANT OTHERS TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER.

You see? All the things are interconnected. And all these are my views on how you can make your relationship more strong time by time. Comment down below and let me know what are your views on this topic discussed above. According to me, these are highly highly crucial. Try it, and make your bond even more beautiful.

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