Are you happy? Let's test.

What according to you is "Happiness" ? Is it something you gain or is it in built? What thing define a word "Happy" ? A place, a person, food, or perhaps a song? Many people try to find their happiness in such things which will eventually get change as the time will pass. But what about a heart which stays happy throughout? A happy heart always remains the same til the end. 

Do you know who is a happy person? Lets discuss, agree if you think is relatable and if not then work upon being more happy and mature.

Do you get Happy in small small things? Like really really small things? ( Comment down below and let me know what are those. ) A happy heart will get happy in everything around. No complains nothing, It prefer happiness every second of it's life.

Do you overcome bad phase easily? (Until and unless you're a hella emotional person ) okay, if you cant overcome it, it does not mean you are not happy, perhaps this is a sign of an emotional human. They say, no human can be happy entire life bad phase surround them too. Well, yes of course, who does not face bad times? But even if you smile in that situation, this is what makes a person Happy from within. i know you get hurt, you feel bad about things, after all we are humans, right? 

In your life, you will meet different types of people. You never know, who is for you and who is against you. As, this world is full of fake people, no, i did not say all are fake, there will be some who will be always there for you no matter what. If you have these types of people in your life, feel blessed. Some of them think, it's hard to be happy, and some just stay happy without any reason. Do you realize that happy people spread that happy vibe everywhere they go? A happy heart attracts people. NO one would ever want to stay with a person who cry whole day long ( without any reason ). Why would they spend their time with you? No one, i repeat, no one would even try to communicate from their side as now it has already been fit in their mind that my vibes won't match with that sad lonely human. I have seen people smiling even in that situation where we would have literally dwell into an ocean of sadness. This shows how strong they are. 

FIRST STEP TO BE HAPPY IS TO BECOME STRONG ENOUGH TO FACE BAD TIMES.

I know, this might sound tough for some people but do not worry, eventually you will learn this by time, you will learn as you grow. Like, growing emotionally, growing in every way is just so essential. Experience things in life, learn to accept things, learn to accept people as they are, you can not change anybody, you just can't teach others to behave nice with you. Because obviously they are not YOU!

SECOND STEP TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE IS TO BECOME MORE AND MORE EXPERIENCED.

Staying at home, wont help. Explore yourself. And for that you do not need anyone, you just need yourself. And mind you, I am not telling here to EXPLORE yourself with friends and families, there is a difference between hanging out and exploring. Try to do it alone and in that way you will get to know yourself better. Sometimes spending time with yourself alone is the best thing you could do. Think about how life has changed ( In a positive manner; we are talking about happiness here, negativity does not play any role in being happy ), how we have changed, how our surrounding is not the same as before, think about life, you dreams, your passions, your goals, it will make you happy.

THIRD AND THE FOREMOST STEP IS TO NEVER EXPECT FROM ANYONE.

Do you rely on other people? Do you expect from them to keep you happy? Yes? Then change it. Change you priority list and put yourself first. And then see how happy you will be. I am not saying to stop talking to your friends or other people, but just do not rely upon them for making you happy, you have yourself and it is enough. Stay away from people who are jealous of your smile, they are jealous cause they cant be happy in their life. Surround yourself with people who motivates you, encourages you, who loves to see you happy, and cut off the ones from your life who you think laugh on you and your success. You will be meeting so many people like these, just be sharp and understand who is for you and who is against you.

 ( DISCLAIMER : BUT NEVER LEAVE A PERSON WHO KEEP YOU HAPPY ALL DAY LONG, YOU ARE BLESSED IF YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO CARES ABOUT YOU AND YOUR HAPPINESS, NEVER EVER LET THAT PERSON GO, DOESN'T MATTER WHO THAT PERSON IS, YOUR FRIEND, YOUR PARENTS, YOUR LOVER, MAYBE ANYONE, JUST NEVER EVER LET GO OF A PERSON THIS PURE.  GIVE THEM THE SAME AMOUNT OF LOVE AND CARE AND HAPPINESS THEY GIVE YOU, IN FACT, GIVE THEM MORE THAN THEY DESERVE, NEVER LET THEM SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS, DONT BE A TAKER ALWAYS, BE A GIVER AND SEE HOW GOOD IT FEELS, OH, ASK ME!

I hope you know now who really is a happy person, and if you are not then how you can be full of happiness. keep smiling always, it suits you!

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